we stopped talking
So me (26f) and the guy I was talking to (31m) have been talking for a few months now, and we’ve gone out, had fun, we’re playing games together, spending time together etc. it was honestly going fine and all good but the last few days, he’s been super distant, he never sends anything if I don’t send smth first and in general it’s not the same like how it was in the beginning. And now it’s been a few days since we last spoke and honestly I’m tired trying to start the convo or to keep it alive or anything, so I’ve pretty much given up as well (I say as well because I think he’s done the same). But a part of me is still invested in this, because a part of me still likes him and I don’t want to just give up when I’ve spent so many months talking to him and being around him etc etc
I know this is probably a very common story in here and I know the answer is clear asf but a part of me can’t help but want to hold onto whatever this might be cuz I can’t just give up so easily when I like that person and I’ve spent majority of my time being with them etc. what should I do? Should I just move on atp? It sucks knowing that this is probably the end? And yes, we didn’t have any “titles” of sorts and I hate the word situationship (I know, I’m dumb)
I guess I’m just looking for the “push” from someone to tell me that I should really just move on because I know the more I try to hold on to this or to any hope, I’ll just end up getting hurt 😭
Posted Jul 5, 2026, 12:27 PM UTC