AIO sons first haircut stolen

Sons first haircut.

He is soon 5yo.

Me and his father have been growing hair for the same time. Always tought it would be a family moment, and we agreed that we will cut his hair when the son wants it.

Now yesterday my son came from first ever nightover from my father. He had cut his hair, even thought i clearly stated before they left ( he has insisted on cutting the hair before) that just keep him safe and dont cut his hair.

Well, he came back and my father just ran away, and i was a lil baffled until i realized he had cut like good 5cm from my sons hair.

It was really a spiritul thing for me. Once in a life time thing. My father brushed it as nothing. Im so sad and mad and in my pregnancy hormones ive just been crying.

I always imagined it being our lil familys part of history. Now its gone, never to be replaced and just shrinked to "just a lil cut".

Cried to my father yesterday on phone and he was just weirded out. Today i pressed red on him. Im lowkey wanting to cut contact with him.