37 [M4F] #EST — Looking for My Favorite Distraction

I’ve been here before. I chased casual because I thought it’d protect me. It didn’t.

Turns out I don’t miss having someone. I miss having my person.
The good mornings. The banter. The random “look what happened today” texts. The “can you believe this bitch at work?” rants. The playlists. The butterflies. That stupid grin when your phone lights up because you already know who it is. Maybe even a little healthy obsession (or unhealthy toxic kind). The kind where we’re both checking our phones a little more than we’d like to admit.

I’m a 37 y/o married Latino from NYC. Proud dad. Tatted (a lot), nose ring, earrings, curly hair that’s starting to lose the battle with gray, goatee, 5’10”, masculine dad bod sponsored by pizza and the occasional gym visit. Emo kid at heart. Pablo Neruda fanatic. Artist. Nerd. My brain is 40% useless Cash Cab facts, 40% song lyrics, and 20% wondering if that noise in the hallway is a ghost. I read books and comics, cook, paint, take photos, write poetry and if I make you a playlist, congratulations… you’re probably living in my head rent-free. I’m sarcastic by default, funny until I catch feelings, emotionally aware thanks to therapy, and loyal to a fault once I’m invested.

Looking for someone who can actually hold a conversation. Funny, curious, emotionally intelligent, and preferably the type who sends paragraphs instead of “lol.” Latina is a plus, but chemistry wins every time. Physical attraction matters for both of us, so let’s exchange pictures when it feels right. Not looking for bbw but if you have some meat on your body, don’t hesitate.

Worst case? We waste each other’s time for ten minutes.

Best case? We become each other’s favorite notification.

*notabot…probably