Rant about boyfriend..
I just need to whinge really. I’m (32F) 10 weeks pregnant and have been suffering with extreme ‘morning’ sickness since 5 weeks. This has led to bad headaches, extreme exhaustion and I’m just not feeling very good. My mobility (due to disability) has also been worse recently leading me to have been housebound aside from medical appointments.
All of this is going on and he’s (44M) sulking cause I don’t want sex.. he thinks if I’m not up for sex I should just see to him.. but I’m EXHAUSTED. I barely have the energy to survive let alone get an arm workout in.. and it’s m absolutely not putting it in my mouth when I’m this close to vomming every second.
To note, we used to have sex most days but since 6 weeks we’ve had it twice. So once a fortnight.
He now doesn’t wanna cuddle or be close in case he gets turned on…
And has started saying he’s worried we’ll end up like him and his ex wife who had a basically sex less marriage…
He came into the room just now.. I’m in bed, been sick this morning. He asks for a cuddle. He gets it. He asks ‘what’s the chance I can bend you over?’ I said I was too ill and tired. He huffs and leaves the room to play computer games…
Like wtf am I meant to do?
Posted Jul 5, 2026, 12:34 PM UTC