56 [M4MF] #Oregon, Ashland, has the Wife had a nice long four handed massage lately?

Hi, sexless married guy here. it’s been a few years now. Looking for a fun and curious married couple that has been thinking of finding a third for open minded fun in the bedroom or couch or car…lol. Would like this to be the first time for all of us and need much discretion. Ongoing FWB situation would be amazing. I want to hear about your kinks and bucket lists if you have them. I am wary about getting STDs from a stranger and need to be careful. Me- very normal, sane, and healthy married guy, 6ft, 170 lbs, DDF, HWP, excellent hygiene, average looks, and an average sized good looking 5” cut cock. I am also snipped. Can share pics. Medford, Ashland, Southern Oregon, Rogue Valley.