So my first time writing here as I needed to vent. And advise.

So, all of my friends are in this group chat. People were messing around, silly stuff, and things slowly started getting more and more personal. Guys started defending the guy who was being what I would call "immature" and the one who started getting personal. 

I, unfortunately, got dragged in due to another girl. And this guy started replying to me as well (my texts initially didn't even concern/mention him).

Then he wrote a long ass paragraph about a girl and I, basically saying loads of slurs and everything. 

I was called: "baili ek number ni r\*\*dvi ghelcho dini what does this mean"

Which basically translates to: She is a number-one slut who has gone completely crazy.

I just froze for a second because this guy is someone who I used to be genuinly comfortable with. And him saying such stuff was something I never expected. Not to me, not to anyone.

I just wrote a few curse words back and blocked him.

What hurt the most was that the other two guys who were being proactive defending this dude earlier, went really quite. Then immediately changed the topic. 

I have known these two guys since elementary school, and one of them is/was (I don't really know now) close with me throught. So, it kinda stung that now no one's taking a stand??

The girls in that group kinda tried holding him accountable but the guys just brushed it off with other topics. They texted me, called me and yeah, calmed me down a bit. 

So yeah.

Pic: dosa-sambar, my personal favourite. I had it a few days ago.

Someone called me....