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Java_Fern

28 [M4F] #Portland/Online - Submissive boy looking for his lovely owner

NSFWM4F Oregon / Online

About me:

Contrary to my username I am not actually a fern but I have a pretty nice collection of them. I'm 6'2"and thin but pretty fit with brown hair and pretty blue eyes. I'm an environmental engineer and am really passionate about my work along with all things cities and environment related. As a person I'm very mellow, open, and easygoing, I'll try just about anything once and generally have a pretty positive outlook on life. I'm also a definitely a bit of a nerd, I'm very passionate about my interests and hobbies.

Hobbies/Interests:

Houseplants: Mostly tropicals but I have an appreciation for succulents

Lifting: Definitely not an expert but I'm really enjoying it

Sci-fi/fantasy books and movies

Aquariums: Don't even get me started here

Restaurants: Particularly Japanese and Italian!

What I'm looking for:

Something ideally long term and in-person although I'm open to online if we really click well. I know I need a strong connection and to feel cared about in any dynamic. I like some rougher kinks but would like to find someone with more gentle vibes. We can talk more about specific kinks as we get to know each other but I enjoy doing whatever it takes to please my partner and really love praise.

Next Steps:

Shoot me a message if you think we'd vibe, I'm usually a pretty quick texter. If you include a SFW picture with your message I'll return the favor

Posted Jul 5, 2026, 8:58 PM UTC · locked

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