50 [M4F] #Portland I Miss Having a Co Conspirator
Affairs aren’t really about sex.
At least not the great ones (although the sex is good too).
They’re about having one person who can completely derail an ordinary Tuesday.
A message that says;
“I have exactly one hour. Let’s get together?”
An excuse to leave work 15
mins early.
Coffee that turns into a walk.
A walk that turns into an afternoon of laughing.
Going back to real life wondering how the time disappeared so quickly.
That’s the feeling I miss.
I’m 50, 6ft, clean cut, professionally successful and fortunate enough to genuinely like my life.
I’m not looking to blow it up.
I’m looking to make it a little bigger.
To have one person whose name makes me smile before I even read the message.
I’m endlessly curious.
I say yes to life when something sounds interesting and life has a way of rewarding that.
I don’t need constant texts.
I don’t need drama.
I don’t need someone looking to exit their marriage.
I’m looking for one intelligent and emotionally steady woman who misses anticipation as much as i do.
If you are going to respond, skip the usual and just tell me “When was the last time an ordinary weekday became unforgettable?”
Posted Jul 5, 2026, 9:00 PM UTC