Whats up with Co-op on pc

I have about 120 hours in the game and im hr 32 right, ive soloed every monster thus far but i still always have join request on because id love to play with people, but its a once a month occurrence. When i try to find others myself still no dice

Is everyone just on sunbreak at this point or what?😂or is it just a dry there
And i know its not a player count issue because the game has thousands of players on steam daily