28 [M4F] #California - Looking for Something Just for Me

Being together with my partner for close to a decade and sharing almost every aspect of our lives has left me to have the desire (like many of us on here) to be selfish and have something just for myself without her knowing. I’m not new to this secret side of Reddit, but I’m back here in hopes of finding exactly what I’m looking for.

So a little more about me: I’m 28M, Asian, 5’8, lean/fit build. I work in tech and enjoy a mix of active and lazy/indulging activities such as volleyball, binging movies/anime, and discovering/trying out new foods in my area. Once you get past the small talk and formalities I’m a calm, sweet, down-to-earth guy who loves listening to others and learning about everyone in their different views and walks of life. Sexually, I’d consider myself a vanilla kinda guy who’d like to explore and maybe fulfill some of my deep kinks and fantasies.

In regards to my pAP, I’m hoping I can find someone maybe in a similar situation as mine and not looking to change it: hoping to be a little selfish and indulge in some form of escapism and some kind of fun and consistency. I’m fairly strict on my OPSEC, so I don’t expect daily messages given that we have our own personal lives to worry about, but I’m hoping to find someone to share the same energy as me whenever we do have the moments to chat. And maybe we can meet up if we’re in the same area vibe.

I’d love to chat if you share any similar interests to mine or we could talk about anything in general too and see where the fun takes us!

Talk soon!