Idk, how should I handle parents?

I think my parents are a bit too much and honestly too much a pacifist. like, I came out as straight and stated that I liked girls and they were too much of pacifists and even if they engaged in a argument with me I feel like they’d point out how it’s lesbian and not straight bc I haven’t gone on T yet and also they further don’t use he/him pronouns for me. I can’t really tell if they’re transphobic