I have this gut feeling that something is wrong with my friend

I 19M have this gut feeling that something is wrong with my friend 20F. For a little backstory I met this friend at the start of high school in 2019, over the years we became very close and I considered her my best friend. After finishing high school in 2024 we kept in touch while we lived in the same town, but over time we slowly stopped talking not for any reason but just nothing really to talk about (may just be me not reaching out enough).

Over the past year she has moved away across country with her boyfriend, but we still continued to snap and send photos to one another but no real conversation. As of recently she stopped snapping me after the past few days and it seemed like shes just gone distant.

As for today I’ve messaged her that I’ve got this for feeling that somethings happened to her and just had this gut feeling that something was wrong and had to check. I’ve seen that she’s active but so I know nothing life threatening had happened but I’m just worried for her own personal well being.

I don’t know if this is just me worrying to much, or overreacting about nothing, but I really care about her and just want to make sure she is okay, because I still see her as a friend and I’m just trying to be there for her.

If there is any advice or if anyone been in a similar situation it would be greatly appreciated. Thanks

Posted Jul 6, 2026, 1:14 PM UTC

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