[nraas story progression] how do i stop these prompts coming up for townies?

i just downloaded nraas sp and cause i dont want notifs for everyone i made it so i'd only see them from blood related sims. regardless i keep getting these kinds of prompt pop ups for random sims and i can't figure out how to disable it
anyone know?? :sob:

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