45 M4F #PST - Let's be mutually obsessed with each other

About me:

Jack of all trades - I know a bit about a lot of things, and a lot about a bit : ). I’m a wealth of one-off facts, some even useful! I usually have a one liner in me somewhere. But I also like to listen and learn. Teach me something. Something you're passionate about it. I’ll do my best to do likewise. We can talk hobbies, memes, cooking, drinks (we each have go to cocktails), media (modern or classic) and pop culture that we like/can't stand and the stuff our kids subject us to. An ongoing, never-ending dialogue that doesn’t constantly come to a stop with “IDK, u?”

Communication – I like a lot of it. Maybe an absurd amount. I have time during the days and evenings to devote to this. I’m mostly WFH so I’m available for messaging, and for calls (video and/or voice only) regularly. If I get busy for a few hours, I’ll always let you know. Expect to hear from me all day, and into the evenings. I’m not a night owl, but I try to be around as much as I can. Even if there’s a delay, I will always respond. Messages, calls, pics/videos. All of it as regularly as we can when we get there. There is no such thing as too much.

Physical – It’ll take a bit of time to get to pics; they won’t be upfront. We’ll see if we even get along first before anything else. I’m 5'9" & HWP. I usually work out daily but am no gym rat or model. No tats or piercings. I’ve gotten compliments at the pic stage. Especially my eyes, lips & skin, so I got that going for me, which is nice.

Things that are important to me:

Time & effort – Please have the same availability as me. SAHM, WFH, home business…something along those lines. If we get busy for a bit, we’ll always give a heads up. Good mornings first thing as we wake up. Good night’s without fail. We’ll be a priority to each other and we’ll show it. The little silly and simple things of the day we’ll share with each other without needing to be asked. Extroverts welcome! Talk/message my ears/eyes off. I ask lots of questions, but I don't want that to be the only way you share with me. I want to have a PhD in you. I want us to be obsessed with each other. But in a good way : )

Being a parent – I’m one, and I relate much better to moms with kids also in school. They are one of our joys, and I want us to be able to share that with each other once we build a connection. We’ll give each other advice, share experiences and celebrate important moments. We’ll also help each other through the anxieties, and headaches that arise from being a parent. Sometimes seemingly without any help from our SOs…

Dead bedroom – It’s where I’m at, please be the same. Not cake eating. Not just bored. Intimacy is a foreign concept to your SO. We've done all we can, but you & I are tired of always having to initiate, always putting in the effort that’s not reciprocated. But on the rare occasions that it does come to life, we'll share about that as well, and cheer for each other.

You've had an affair – You’re not just curious or a first-time lurker. You’ve done it before and know what it takes. You’ve had the feels and you’re ready to have them again. Something special that will last. You’re not careless, with safety or feelings. We’ll protect each other. Not just for our home situations, but also each other's hearts.

Other stuff – If you like anything about the current presidential administration, just no. You care about other people, not just the ones that look like you. You like to think, learn, explore, experience new and different things. Side note; if you’re big into tarot or astrology, we probably aren’t gonna get along.

Please be HWP too. I’m no model, I don’t expect you to be one either. No concerns about height. I lean toward less goth and more mom next door types. Painted nails and toes and such. You take care of yourself, put in effort. Even if it’s just for you or the occasional eyes that catch yours when you’re out…you’re ready to be enjoyed again. I will appreciate you, adore you. You'll never want for attention. Show off to me all the time. In the naughty & SFW ways.

I like a flirt...not just with me but in general. I will encourage it. You enjoy male (maybe also female) attention. But at the end of the day we will be just for each other (SOs aside of course). When we get there, we'll trade all the fun, sexy stories about our SOs & exes, from the past. If our dead bedrooms should find life support, we’ll share those details too. To celebrate it and also cuz it's kinda hot. If we happen to see attractive people while out and about, we will say so to each other. I want us to be able to share about all these types of things in ways we can’t with our SOs.

The sooner we can jump off Reddit chat, the better. I’m using Signal, so make sure that’s ok for you. I’m in the PST. Time zones make a difference; in the USA & as far as the CST is my limit. If things click and there’s an opportunity, I’d like to meet at some point, which would be amazing though not very often. But one step at a time…

I’m an 80’s/90’s kid, it’d help if you are too. Remember the 80’s when child safety seats were…non-existent? Parents smoked while driving, at restaurants & when they slept? Between the concussions and secondhand exposure, it’s a miracle we’re still alive.

If you've gotten this far, thank you! Drop me a line, tell me about yourself. If something really spoke to you in this post, tell me what it was. Can’t wait to hear from you.