Why do men want to make lesbians straight so bad

Im tired of being a lesbian, everytime i thought im safe with a man. They think its a compliment to say ‘you’re wayyy too hot to be a lesbian. Like you got huge racks’ and sometime i feel like they only see me as an achievement, nothing else. It sucks. Everyone sucked. I think that its almost impossible for me to find the love of my life if i keep meeting horrible people left and right.