37[M4F] #Toronto; “is that a new haircut?”

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Hoping to strike lightning here. Hoping you do too…

It won’t be obvious at first. Your friends will probably notice before you do. It will be subtle…

“Oh, is that a new haircut?”

“Oh! You’re glowing today! What crème are you using?”

“You seem happier, did you get promoted?”

That one super hippie-ish friend that just knows things will be like “did you get laid last night?! Who!?”

Whereas my friends would just be like: “Where did our friend go?” They are little less intuitive when it comes to these things.

I want to be on your mind and yours in mine. The constant text and sneaky smiles. The heart skipping a beat when a text message comes in.

It might be short, it might out last both of us but I want to make a mark. Maybe you’ll think of me when you spill the tea to your palliative care nurse 😏

I’m looking for something pretty specific. I know I”m a whole ass dude and this is Reddit! “You should take what you should get!” One might say. But I’m a in a pretty specific situation myself.

I’m attached, I hope you are too or at least be okay with it. I’m looking for in person (while online is okay; I’d like the option of actually acting on our impulses)

About me: I’m East Asian. 37; 6ft tall. Slim build, a lot of tattoos. No kids; unless fur babies count. I’m a serial hobbyist; rn I’m restoring a kayak and building a home gym. I love anime, edm, kareoke, fishing, swimming, snowboarding. Ask me about my shoe collection.

I want someone with honest eyes 👀 that is a non negotiable for me. I want to melt when you look at me and I want the feeling of seeing your emotions!

Posted Jul 6, 2026, 1:15 PM UTC

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