AITA? Feelings changed after texts..

Text thread:

Sent the night we had plans to chat - 4:30a her time…her location is not at her home after a festival:
I hope you are safe and sound wherever you ended up tonight. Goodnight

Reply the next morning from her home:
I’m safe, but absolutely hangover

Me:

Hello

Good to hear you’re safe, I was a little worried actually when I never heard back from you yesterday

I might have stalked your location around my bedtime here and you still weren’t home which was already like 4:30 for you - sounds like you had fun though :)

Sorry you are hung over :/

Her

Yeah there is basically no connection

Hahaha you stalker

Yes it was fun but spontaneous

Later: she was feeling lonely about a previous break up
Me:

I get that… I think I was hoping to talk to you yesterday and then today, but it was feeling like maybe something happened or I don’t know, maybe I offended you somehow?

I’m really sorry you’re feeling lonely. Sleep well - we can talk another time

Her:

This makes me feel like you think I owe you an explanation but actually I don’t.

I was enjoying myself with my friends and having a nice time
I waited for this weekend for weeks now.

And also I don’t understand why you think something happened or that you should be worried?!? Like worried about what

I apologized about how it came across, then gave her a lot of space. Everything kinda went back to normal after a week or so. I hadn’t seen her and we made plans to visit, everything was perfectly normal and intimate, then I asked her what was on her mind these days and we talked about it. That’s when she said her feelings are not matching my feelings after those texts, she started acting really cold and we parted ways.

Btw we share our locations and regularly stalk the other person in good fun, nothing weird

Is there any way back? I kinda panic texted her but nothing bad just that I was feeling heart broken etc. Then I apologized for that and told her I respected her decision to step away and would do the same to work through my own stuff. She didn’t respond to any of it, and now I just don’t know.

I am doing the emotional hard work and want to reach out but wonder how long to wait, if I should, and how to approach it if I do. Thanks! Were my texts really that bad?