I need advice/suggestion
My partner and I, both early 30s (women) have been in a 3 yr relationship. Ever since we started, I work full time. Her, she just moved in, left her previous work for me (?) and while in the relationship, she never had like a stable job. Laging palipat lipat and the most recent one was really a good company. We went for holiday and while on the holiday, we had a fight. A big one, and she resigned impulsively and now she is jobless. Been almost 2 months already. Since we came back from holidays, I have been working fulltime + training for an events that I just competed this week. But the thing is, we alao just moved in sa new apartment. So everything is still a mess. We have 8 opened boxes with all our stuff laying around our living room. Its been there for 3 weeks.
She doesnt have hobbies, she doesnt want to go out on her own, when I go out on my days off, she would always come with me. Parang anak ba. I cook for us on my days off (meal prep for the whole week), i keep telling her to make herself busy with something she likes. Para gumalaw galaw siya or something para naman mamotivate siya sa sarili niya. Everytime I see her parang very depressing.
Posted Jul 6, 2026, 1:23 PM UTC