I maybe have planned too many dates F21
I have never really been single before in my adult/teenage life by sort of a weird string of fate, so now that I am single, I wanted to try making a dating app profile. It’s been about 4 days now.
For context, I am using hinge. I am interested in long term relationships. I am in the USA.
I started a bunch of conversations with people I found attractive & interesting, expecting some to fizzle out, become dull, or lead to one of us breaking it off. It felt rude to leave likes “unanswered”, but I found more interesting people than I thought I would.
Now I have frankly too many dates scheduled. I definitely have plenty of time to go on them, but it seems a little extreme. I’m worried that it’s disrespectful to be going on a date with a guy if I have more than a few others scheduled.
At what point or metric is it disrespectful? Roughly how many dates in would you expect the person you are going out with to not be going on other dates? Should I tell all of them beforehand that I am going on dates with other people on other days as well?
Posted Jul 6, 2026, 1:27 PM UTC