Confused over this small success story. Need some pointers.

Yesterday I got home from my run and I met my mum at the entrance. She told me she ordered me a sandwich and at that point I had this urge to have a coffee and said you should’ve ordered coffee with it. and while we waited for it to arrive we talked a little bit about my future. I was concerned I’ve been stagnant and things haven’t been great for me personally. I’ve been stuck in a country I don’t like and I have longer to return back to the country where I studied abroad and built a base before I left. I was being a bit pessimistic about my options and mum told me to be optimistic and things would work out.

So anyways the delivery arrived and to both our surprise the sandwich came with a free coffee. I was shocked and a bit flabbergasted. I was grateful to receive but I’m confused how I manifested this cup of coffee? Because all I did was in a sort of felt this urge for a coffee and then in a dejected voice asked you should’ve ordered me a coffee. Can anyone explain how this worked?

I say this because for the past month I’ve been being disciplined and affirming daily as I’m manifesting my person. Unlike previous attempts this time I’ve been disciplined in my practice and while checking the 3d of social media remains an issue I’ve been persisting. I met my person while studying abroad and while we never dated we felt a strong connection with each other and mutually remained in touch over the years despite moving countries. Last year we flirted a lot despite her push pull avoidant behaviour. Towards the end of last year I was guided to confess to break the stagnant pattern but she rejected me and told me she never felt that way and was with someone. I knew it was a lie based on a fear driven response to vulnerability (and I never saw any evidence of her being with anyone and in the time I’ve known her behaviour was avoidant and being in her private list she was independent) so i didnt not react to the 3d and left her on read and went no contact. She tried liking my post a couple days later i didnt react. I found out she hid me from her stories i didnt react. 3 months ago she unhid me and i muted her stories i only recently unmuted her a month ago because i decided not to make a big deal of it. And throughout this period she continues to OBSESSIVELY WATCH all my stories without fail in this 6 months of no contact often within minutes but she still didn’t break no contact. I could sense she was holding her self back perhaps hesitating and overthinking.

So I finally decided to stop over analysing everything and dropping the pain of how I felt of the old story. I began affirming diligently that she broke no contact and confessed she loves me and we’re together in a long term relationship. I’ve been doing the 10 minute method of affirming and as well as anytime I think of her or the 3d pops up. I still struggle with the 3d especially with social media sometimes I come across posts she likes or I wonder what she’s up to but I try to get back to affirming in my desired state. I haven’t noticed any movement so far she still continues to watch and stalk my insta stories but I decided to let be.

This is why I was confused how i manifested the coffee so easily but with my person it’s been this half in half out space where she just watches me and didnt reach out yet. I understand i was still stuck in the old story and i let go i am diligently affirming and choosing my desired reality but i would he grateful if anyone can help me understand what i need to improve and if there is something better i can do for my manifestation ?

Thanks.