Spark alive am I weird??

Hi I have a weird question for you guys find your spouse still attractive I mean like you genuinely want to be with them sexually physically? I grew up my parents never did pda I mean not even a kiss, it was weird. But now that I am an adult and in a long term relationship 8+ years I still want my spouse like list after them enjoy doing things like sneaky teens. Everyone I know who has been together that long goes through the motions it’s weird. Am I weird ? My mom always thinks it’s weird how we still “like” one another. Like example “I make my spouses food plate for them” she thinks that’s weird. Like that’s only a thing people do in the beginning of a relationship.
I think it’s weird too how some of my friends think it’s weird how we still enjoy being intimate, like somehow it should be bland and boring now that we have had kids, like they put shame on that I chose my spouse and I still find them attractive.