Confused on what to do.t

So lately I’ve been rlly struggling on being honest with my boyfriend and I feel like I’m crazy. So i F(19) live with my boyfriend currently who’s M(19) and he recently had to drop out of college and he quit his job he had. I work almost 40 hours a week full time I as well had to drop out of college to work full time. It’s been 3 months since he’s had a job and I pay for everything. We live with his parent and siblings and he doesn’t even really clean around the house. He sleeps all the time stays up at night and plays video games all day. I currently live with him because of my situation at my parents house. But again I pay for everything right now I have no money in my savings. I asked him a couple days ago to you know apply for jobs help out a little get outta the house and you know just take the weight off of me. He would get defensive everytime I would remind him to apply and one day he told me he wanted me to go home to my moms for a few days for some space. He said I “stress him out” and that me being anxious makes him anxious when I come home from work. I took it very offensively because he had never asked me to go home and he knows I hate going home. He just wanted time to himself and to sleep by himself which I work all day he has time to himself all the time. I’m just lost because it’s like it’s my fault that he won’t get a job and we’ve just been fighting a lot lately. I know I’m young and I have my life to live. What do you guys think abt this situation?