45 [M4F] Looking for a forbidden connection
I’m 45, fit, well traveled, and educated, with a solid career and a life that most people would call good on paper. What’s missing is the most real thing: someone to actually share it with. I’m looking for a woman who wants the same, a genuine connection but we both know what this is and what this is not. I’m not looking to blow my life or yours in finding this connection.
I grew up in New York City, but I’ve swapped the skyline for the green hills and waters of the Southeast. I stay active year round, mostly lifting, running, swimming, and cycling. I love scuba diving , mountain climbing, hiking, kayaking, white sand beaches, and a good drink at the end of the day. I am also an amateur coffee roaster and I always have freshly roasted beans at my place.
I’m not looking to blow up anyone’s life, just looking for someone easygoing to talk to, laugh with, and build something real with over time. I travel a fair amount for work, so distance isn’t a dealbreaker if there’s a real connection worth exploring.
If I sound like your kind of person drop me a message and let’s connect.
\*notabot
Posted Jul 6, 2026, 8:53 PM UTC