Cart abandonment is driving me crazy...anyone on the same boat?

Hello everyone.

I just need to vent a bit because this is really getting ugly. I am paying for traffic , bringing people to my store and then they add stuff to their card. And then boooom... 99% of them just never buy....its like they were never there.

I tried everything : automated cart abandonment emails , discounts , pop up ...nothing worked consistently. Even called few of them but it was just a one time thing..

Is there any tool, strategy or personal approach that really made a difference? I would love to hear your stories, wondering if its just me!!

Please dont promote your tool or any app ( i need genuine advice from real owners)

Thank you!