27 [TF4A] #online Trans girl at the start of my transition looking for someone to give me a light, but real, introduction to blackmail

About me: I'm 27, recently realized I'm trans and am slowly starting a transition. No hrt yet and minimal feminine clothing so if you're looking for someone with boobs or who is usually very female presenting I don't think we're a match. I'm also in a committed relationship with my partner and will only be looking for blackmailers who are going to respect that.

I'm new to blackmail but the thought of losing control like this is extremely hot and I'd love to get my feet wet with it. The biggest hurdle for me finding someone would be my time/schedule. I spend almost all my time with my partner and do not have much free time/space to do bigger tasks. I can usually manage a task or so on my lunch break at work but it's still pretty restrictive. If you aren't willing to work with me around me schedule this simply won't work.

I'm hoping to find an arrangement where I give you some medium level material, humiliating, kinky, degrading photos, and you make me obey you under threat of them being posted online out of my control. I will be requiring a safe word, but I do want an actual threat of them being posted if i don't listen.

As for my kinks and limits, I'm currently locked in a chastity cage by my partner and will likely have to stay locked the whole time we play together, but I enjoy CBT, light exhibitionism, SPH, anal play (when I can), toilet play, and a good amount of other kinks too. I really like the idea of watersports and drinking piss but I can't usually get myself to actually do it normally.

Limits: scat, blood, vomit, snot, extreme pain, or anything that will get me in real legal trouble.