Welp I tried tinder as a 28 Y/O and now i'm depressed
At first I just wanted to practice talking with women again just causal convos. Some were great some even flirted and that felt great at least until I met this girl who I can't lie is drop dead gorgeous. We had similar interests except ofc i'm a neet and I told her of my situation, but she was still cool with me. We gamed a bit online and after giving her my # I would call her every other day and btw I needed beer to talk lol I just didnt want to be awkward, but it helped. We got to the point where she said she actually liked me and that felt crazy. So we continue talking until I guess last night after an awkward call and running out of things to say I think I just told her gn and that was it. Left her a message kind of just telling her that I liked her, but I think I might be ghosted. Atp I dont mind being just friends I really liked our convos even if I did have to carry them all, but it is sad to think that if I had my shit together she could easily be "the one." The only good thing out of this is that it's motivated me to get any job. I want to at least try even if i fail she really made me feel like okay this world aint so ass. Thanks for reading, maybe she'll hit me back up who knows and yeah yeah ik theres forsure other dudes yall dont have to remind me it's tinder after all lol
Posted Jul 6, 2026, 8:55 PM UTC