Got ghosted for 2 weeks and i dont have a reason

Well its my first time posting any thing in reddit

i met a girl in highschool, well i live in (X) country but i am from (Y) country and when i found out that the girl girl was also from (Y) country i was quite reliefed bec i thought i found someone like me and we were forced to talk with eachother my one friend forced me to talk with her, well she was really shy and i didnt told her anything i just told where do you live and etc and she was replying and asking me some questions to and i just went to my classroom , and in the next break we met i just asked her insta and she gave me , and later that day when i was packing my stuff my friend who helped me meet that girl asked my whatsapp no and after that i just went home, after reaching home when i checked my phone i found out that she had messeged me in whatsapp saying hii and also she had sent a friend req in instaa, i didnt thought too much and just replied her msg with heyy and we had some conversation

Well i found her really preety ( when my friend who is her friend too asked me how was she, i just told her that she was preety(my friend told her that i told her preety😭😭, well she told that infront of me and i was just denying that) ) and while we were chatting she sometime just vanished for 2 hr straight and again comesback , it was like a routine she used to get vanished and come back again and she used to apologized for that and i told her why are you saying sorry and smt like that, and the normal conversation converted into a little bit flirty conversation like i was just teasing her saying you are topper and you will top the classes etc and she told me i am not a nerd and i also asked her what was she eating and she told me (i was her food i am eating you and even worse i told her (am i delicious??😝😝) yahh ik its so cringe 😭😭, and we flirted like that ,not for long and she replied to one of my mag telling me i am so shy at school and i told her (i am shy in front of pretty girlss😝😝🫢 ) and she told me whatt, you made me red and i told her why , was she red hasnt she got any compliments before and she told me i have got but its first time from you and i told her dont worry you will get used to itπŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰)and we decided to meet during the bus dispersal time ,but i couldnt talk to her properly in that time i mean its not like we had time but every time i wait for her ,a guy comes and starts annoying me and when she comes to me i just try my best and ignore that guy and start my conversation with her but the conversation wasnt that great it was just like how was your day and that type of shit , and the after i reached home i again started to talk to her saying stuff and after some time i replied to her one msg saying yk my guess are always right and she was replying playfully i mean our vibe matched and she told me than guess my birthday and i was just randomly guessing it while she already guessed mine and after several attempts she just told me its may 3rd and i told her damn, why my guess is so bad , and she literally said ahh silly little boy its alright and after that i told her (you really like teasing me dont you?😏😏 )and she tole me (guesss?? )and i told her ig its an yes😝😝 and she toldd yes it is 😭 and we were just flirting like that and the next day

During the dispersal i was waiting for her and when she came and my friend was still annoying me and i was just telling him shut up and an autistic guy came to her, well she was infront of me and the autistic guy gave her a paper which was filled with lots of paragraphs and she looked at it and gave it to him and that guy went away and i just ignored my friend and got to her and asked did that guy gave you an love letterπŸ˜†πŸ˜† with a teasing accent , and she told me no actually he is autistic and etc and we were just going then that autistic guy came again and asked her pointing at me saying is he your brother? And she told him guess?? And he told brother?? And she told no he is my friend and she went to her bus , and me and that guy looking at her , i twas kind of akward and that guy again told me is she your sister and i told him no she is my friend and we just shaked our hands and moved to our busses , well she was 1 class junior than me but still she treated me as her friend so it was kind of unusual but nvm that, after we reached home she told me sry for not being able to talk to me properly etc and i told her dont say sryy its not your fault at all etc… and we had some convo and actually i heard roumer of her from my friends and it was that she and a guy from our school were in a rlt and i asked my friends if its true he told no it was just a rumor but still that day i asked her saying i heard your rumor today with playfull accent and she told me what was the rumor and i told you know it and she told me i want to hear it , whats it? And i told her that about the rumor and her reaction was that rude but she was more shocked and she told me that i dont even know that guy what the hell and after some text she literally ghosted me that whole day and next day

when i reached the school i saw her in the front path with her friend and she just hurried and ran away after she saw me, while i was was pretending i didnt saw her , after that when i reached class her friend told me that she was mad at me because i told her that i heared roumer of her dating someone and her friend also told me that thats not how you are suppose to talk to women and than i realised my mistake and i said that really, man i will appolize to her, after that i went outside i saw her again but she again acted like not seeing me and ran away , she was literally trying to avoid me , after some time i found her again with her friends looking at some art book, then i went to her and apologizedby saiyng, (hey,, i am really sorry for yesterday text ,i didnt mean to distrust you i was just trying to tease you i am sryy for thatt, , i said that and she said okey , well she was kind of blussing but she was kind of shy and was usually blushing while talking to me so i didnt thought about it then i went to my class and she was beating her friend after that i didnt saw her the whole day then at the day end i was waiting at the stairs i saw the same friend going up to call her but she came again and said to me that she had to drop her friend so she wont come today and i said okey and then i went, later that day she texted me , well she just replied my text and she was kind of trying to bring the topic by saying that you should trust that guy kind of stuff well and i told her that i will never trust that guy ever again etc and i send some text ans she again ghosted me for the whole day and the next day

i saw her taking different route while comming to school and i didnt saw her that whole day and at the bus dispersal i didnt even waited for her , i thought it was no use she might use a different path again, at after i reached home she texted me saying i didnt see you this whole day were you absent and i just pretended like i didnt saw her too and i thought she was absent , well it was the last day before our summer vacation and after some texts she again ghosted me and this time she hasnt replied to my text for more than 2 weeks , i am just confused if she is still mad at me or what,😭😭 why are girls so confusingg??😭😭

I KNOW ITS A LONGG STORYY BUT PLEASEE I WANT YOU TO READ IT AND PLEASE SUGGEST ME YOUR THOUGHTS ABOUT IT😭😭

Posted Jul 6, 2026, 8:55 PM UTC

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