45 [M4F] #NYC discreet Asian guy downtown – ISO local FWB for summer fun & banter

The weather is too good to spend the summer cooped up or settling for routine, so I'm looking to find a reliable, ongoing friends-with-benefits dynamic here in the city.

About me:

• Stats: 45, Asian, 5'8", active, and I eat healthy to stay in peak shape.
• Vibe: Professional, articulate, witty, and drama-free. I work downtown and have a highly flexible schedule, which makes daytime availability very doable.
• Discretion: I am married, so airtight OPSEC is a strict, non-negotiable rule for me. Everything between us stays completely private, safe, and low-profile.

I’m looking for real-world chemistry and sharp conversation, not an endless digital pen-pal routine. I want the mutual effort, the fun daily banter, and a highly attentive partner who knows how to respect boundaries while focusing entirely on our mutual escape.

I'm always happy to securely share verified private photos (I keep mine hosted securely on Ashley Madison) once we connect and feel an initial spark.

If you're a local woman looking for a fit, mature, and reliable guy who knows how to play safe and keep things entirely confidential, shoot me a message with a little about yourself.

What’s your favorite low-key spot or neighborhood in the city to disappear into for a quick drink?