How do I get invited by Melina to join the Round Table?

I’ve never played Elden ring before and this is my first time but I was told I should be invited to join the round table officially after a certain point in the game. I have yet to be given the option to even talk to Melina when resting at grace sites. When I look up what I should do I’ve done everything listed.

I’ve killed Margit the fell, killed Godrick the grafted, I’ve rested at all the grave sites recommended as well. I rested at the grace after killing godrick, the church of elleh, the lake facing cliffs, the gate front ruins, the third church of Marika, even the smoldering church in Caelid. Plus a bunch of others across the map, mostly in Liurnia of the lakes.

I’m not sure what to do at this point. Does anyone have any suggestion?