Ended contact with nM after years of needing to, hit my limit.

[Supportive Responses Only, Advice OK]

I posted another thread in June how I stopped talking to my narcissistic mother after my wedding on 6/6.

A text she sent me today (I have since blocked her again, for good) once again demanded an apology (from myself and my husband), portrayed herself as the victim, and denied my reality of events.

I’m done, I’ve tried to give her grace, she makes it about her and how she feels. Doesn’t matter to her I cried on my wedding due to her actions. I’d be “overly sensitive”.

The thing is, I’m not sad, I’m just done. After years of unresolved hurt, being gaslit (dealing with my own SA at the hands of her husband when I was a teen), and felt conditionally loved, I’ve just reached my limit.

Has anyone else just not felt “guilty” or sad going no contact with their nM?

Posted Jul 6, 2026, 9:01 PM UTC

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