Is my friend taking advantage of me?

I am a Christian man in the US and have a male friend who is also Christian who is from Canada. I've known him for 3 years now.

We met online through a common group of Christian friends. He regularly comes to the US every 2-3 months. When things are going well, he is a fun person to be with. We like the same cars, same sports, same foods, same religion, etc. He is in a position of leadership as a Christian.

When things get hard however, such as when I am experiencing domestic violence, he denies my claim, ridiculed me once, and then asked me to speak to other Christians. He said this to my face and on text message.

I am a socially awkward person, so when I meet anyone in person, it takes extra energy out of me. I felt a bit blindsided, to be honest, when I've invested to much time and energy to this person, but I am required to dance around sensitive topics, such as my struggles. But when he got stood up numerous times by dates, I was the first one to support him.

He also sends a flurry of messages to get my attention. A flurry of sentence fragments, emojis, and other people's Instagram stories, Facebook reels, or YouTube shorts. I suspect he does this to get my attention and create the illusion that we have so much in common, before a big ask is about to come: eg can I stay at your place, can you take me around the city, can we split the travel bills in a different state.

I've blocked him on 2 social platforms, but kept him open on a 3rd platform that I check once a week.

I don't have capacity for his sentence fragments and flood of messages that should have been consolidated into a single sentence. But I want to give him the benefit of the doubt, especially when the domestic violence comes to an end.

Thanks for taking the time to read my essay.