27F bf 28M it’s kinda tiring sometimes

My boyfriend and I have been together for about four months, and recently I had to move to a different city because of my family, so now we’re long-distance. Since the move, I feel like our communication has dropped a lot. When we were together in person, everything felt easy, but now we only exchange a few messages a day, and sometimes they stay on delivered for a while.

We don’t really have those everyday check-ins like saying good night or anything like that.I also feel like I’m usually the one who has to initiate calls after work. He does call sometimes, but it’s not consistent or every day. I always thought that when you’re in a relationship, you’d talk daily not necessarily all the time, but at least some regular communication. We don’t watch movies together or like online dates or anything

I already tried talking to him about it. He said he’s still interested, apologised and I don’t want to keep bringing up the same issue over and over again.
I’m starting to feel anxious and catch myself constantly checking my phone for messages

TL;DR: Long-distance communication dropped a lot, I brought it up once, but it didn’t really improve. Not sure if I’m overthinking or if I should be concerned.

Posted Jul 6, 2026, 9:03 PM UTC

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