Help pls

Advice Needed

Okay basically I just graduated highschool and I am leaving for college mid August. I started talking to this guy that lives one town over from me over snap, I knew of him cus we both do track at our schools and r both committed to do it in college too. I added him on snap and after like ten days we started talking, just about random things what we have in common etc. The main reason I pursued something with him is because before him I’ve never done anything with a guy like even kissed, and I wanted to get experience before college so I don’t embarrass myself and also just wanted like a summer thing to entertain myself. I kinda thought those would be his intentions too, seeing as he’s also going to college and we barely knew eachother before this. But now we’ve hung out a couple times and I can’t tell if he’s getting attached or not. Sometimes he says really sweet things that make me feel good but make me worry he wants a relationship. He keeps talking about how he should meet my parents and I kinda just go along with it because I am scared and don’t wanna lose what we have, but now I’m picking him up tmrw to go do smth and he wants me too meet his mom. I just don’t know if I’m reading too much into it or not, I don’t want to hurt him but also don’t want to lose what we have. I also don’t know if should consider trying a relationship at least until Thanksgiving? I just need help any advice is appreciated!

Posted Jul 6, 2026, 9:06 PM UTC

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