Man I'm confused and have a heavy heart idk what to do
Though I'm a teen but I'm posting it here cuz I think it would be better to seek for advice from people who are older .. i hope y'all won't mind .
(please do give it a read )
So, yesterday I was just scrolling through my mother's phone (she uses my father's Facebook account) when I saw a notification from Facebook Messenger. There was a message from a woman's profile named (let's call HER "XYZ."). Out of curiosity, I clicked on the notification, and what I saw was... my father chatting with a foreign woman.
Later, when I looked into the profile, I found out that it's most likely a fake account. All of its followers were from India and Bangladesh even I searched the profile picture using lens , so it's probably a scam account. At first, I thought I should tell my father to avoid getting involved in conversations like that. But then I realized—why the fuck is he chatting with another woman in the first place?I don't know why, but I've always kind of had trust issues with him. I used to check his WhatsApp occasionally to make sure he wasn't... doing some shit but never found anything.
Today, I went to Messenger again and saw that, lol, my father had given that person his phone number. I was so fucking mad. When I got the chance, I checked his WhatsApp and saw their chats. I know it's probably a fake account. She asked for my father's photo, and he sent it to her and then asked for hers in return. I'm pretty sure the account is a catfish. The phone number was listed as being from the UK, but that could be fake too. At least, that's what I hope.
Then I got even more suspicious and went through all of his previous conversations on Messenger. That's when I found out 🥰 that my father has been talking to different random women for the past 9–10 years, and some of those chats weren't even normal.
I don't know, man. I feel really bad for my mother, and I don't know what to do.
I was already considering moving out because I don't want to live under the same roof as them, but yesterday everything changed.
(I didn't even get a good CUET score, lol, because of my lack of consistency—and yeah, normalization too. Around 80 marks got normalized. It's still 800+, but yeah.)
I had literally planned everything: taking a partial drop, going to a South Campus college where attendance isn't an issue, preparing for CA.
I have no one to share all this with. I don't know what to do. Even my brother is way too young to understand.
Haha, I used to be so proud of my dad whenever I heard stories about how other people's fathers cheated on their mothers, but...
---I don't even talk much with my parents because of some things they did to me, lol but anyways.
[Though what I had thought was that after completing my UG and becoming a CA, I'd ask my mother to come live with me. But now I don't even know if that's a good idea, man. I'm so, so confused.]
Posted Jul 7, 2026, 9:57 PM UTC