A call to caregivers

Hey guys. I have been taking care of my mother who is 77 with dementia for the past 20 years of her decline. Its been hard and I find myself lost a lot. Dealing with the emotional parts of everything seems equally or perhaps more taxing than dealing with her decline.

I still dont know how to process everything. I realize we all need help and I want to be that help. Im going to make an app to help with things and I just have a few questions for the community to get me started on identifying issues.

What is your biggest challenge?

What apps do you use now?

What do you wish existed?