Brothers Do you Fear a Marriage Without Intimacy or lack of ? Does it make a marriage worth it for you especially if you have high testosterone/Libido?

We hear many stories like this. There was even an Arab brother in the US on TikTok saying he was frustrated because he works hard, stays loyal, doesn’t cheat, but still went weeks without intimacy. Even many non Muslims in the comments understood his pain.

Some people say the odd and probabilities and risk is lower if you marry someone pretty young, attractive, chaste/virgin, and serious about marriage which I shouldn’t have problems inshallah I am cute looking and stay fit at the gym and look after myself but still

How do brothers protect themselves from this before marriage? What signs should they look for?