HER app friends category

Hi,

Advice please! I'm in a trial separation from my husband and likely we will agree to divorce in a few weeks. I wanted to gain gay community in this time to understand myself better. I signed up to HER with my profile saying married monogamous and looking for friends. I've matched with a great woman who has shared interests and is so cute. I've been explicit with her then I'm just looking for friends. We're meeting next week after work and we've been messaging back and forth every day for the last week. (Is this normal as friends through an app) I haven't met her and I REALLY like her. Maybe I'm building her up too much in my head?! But I'm so nervous to meet even though it's a friends thing. But if I do get divorced if shes matched me as just friends... Could it maybe go somewhere once I'm single? Her profile is "casual open to serious". But maybe based on my profile she's not chosen me as being attractive to her in that way