I want to break up with my boyfriend after 3yrs…

Pretty much what the title says. Idk if he’s doing it on purpose but he really messes with my head & it’s depressing me & causing me to be more anxious.

Last year he had this deep moment AFTER sex, he cried & told me that he wanted to be celibate for religious reasons. I told him I’d support him & I tried, but whenever we are together he initiates sex & we have sex every single time we have alone time.

Last weekend we had sex twice bc we spent most of the weekend outdoors. He sent me a text last night saying that he enjoyed the weekend and that it isn’t about sex but “can we have more of it?”I almost flipped out! What the fuck do u actually want from me?! We have more than enough sex & Im not just laying on my back all day. If I’m too active/into it he accuses me of cheating & we argue.

After sex he spends the next few days commenting/critiquing our sex & it’s a turn off. I asked him if he’s happy with our sex life and he always says “Yes” but he brings these ridiculous requests then says “no biggie” but complains and if I try to do whatever he asks for it’s “why are you doing this? you’re doing too much.” I’m just over it! We are too grown for this.