Sexual Immorality as a result of trauma

People say all the time that they care about people who have trauma, and that they support victims. No intent of a sob story, but I have a lot of trauma and mental issues as a result, and I have had issues with sexual immorality as well. But for some reason, whenever I tell people, they are SHOCKED and paint me as a bad person because of this. I was at the lowest point in my life and with no better coping mechanism, I got addicted to pornography regarding paraphilias that most would consider immoral. This happened because of my trauma, and I realize there is nothing to justify it but its different when someone does a bad thing as a result of circumstances, or at least I thought so. What I did was wrong, but it was very long ago and I am a whole different person now. I still have struggles, but I changed so much. No one can seem to realize this. Do not say you support victims of traumatic things if you cannot handle the things they might have done as a result.