23 [M4F] #UK - looking for my kinky childfree nerdy life partner age 18-23 (UK or Europe preferred)

This post is likely going to be quite long so please bear with me! Please make sure that you’ve read it all before you reach out, if you decide to. If you think we’re a good match then please don’t hesitate to send me a chat and tell me a bit about yourself just like I’ve done here, I can’t wait to hear from you! (Please only reach out if you’re serious about wanting a relationship and match what I’m looking for, please make sure your first message has some real substance to it and explicitly says that you fit what I’m looking for because while I’ve spoken to many great people on here, I’ve also received a large amount of very low effort messages where it's clear they haven't actually read the post.)

A bit about Me:

I'm 23 and live just outside of London in the UK.

I'm childfree by choice and plan to get a vasectomy at some point in the future, I’m not sure when exactly I’ll get around to it but ideally sooner rather than later. Once I'm sterile, I'll be getting it tested every six months to be safe. I’m also pet free as in I don’t want to have pets in the future, I do have 2 plants though which I’m barely managing to keep alive.

In general I’d say I’m not a very family orientated person, I’m not close to most of my family although I do have a good relationship with my parents, overall I’d say family just isn’t a big part of my life and I don’t base my life around it and I’d like to be with a partner who has a similar mindset.

I'm 5'10 or 178 cm, I wouldn’t say I’m particularly athletic or sporty but I do love swimming and go as much as I can.

Right now I work in a pub and I’ve been there for about 7 months, I enjoy it most of the time and it works for me right now while I’m just trying to save some money. I have a Computer Science degree, and my long-term goal is to be a software engineer, currently when I have time I try to just keep my programming skills fresh although it’s not a huge focus right now however it will soon be because my goal is to be ready to start seriously job searching for my first career job by the end of the year at the latest, I’m under no illusion though that it’ll be quick or easy as the job market right now is frankly awful. I would not consider myself very career-oriented; while I want to do well for myself, I definitely value work-life balance the most.

I'm neurodivergent and quite introverted. I definitely value my quiet time, my ideal night is definitely cuddling up in bed and watching a good movie or tv show, although I can be quite outgoing as well around the right people. I'd say I'm quite laid back and I have very little tolerance for things like yelling (at each other) when it comes to a relationship at least so I'd like to say I'm good at communicating and working things out. I just want a relationship where I can feel safe with you and you feel safe with me.

I don’t smoke or take drugs although I do drink occasionally.

I can speak English and a (very) small amount of German, I’m working on learning more and might try learn another European language too like Dutch or Swedish.

I'm financially literate and responsible with money, I hope to eventually retire early in the future.

I'm not religious.

I like to travel. I’ve been to seven countries so far, mostly in Europe, not counting family holidays to Spain as a kid, the country I’ve been to the most is Germany and I absolutely love it, I’ve been to most of the major cities there, Hamburg is my favourite but Berlin is a close second, I’ve also been to the US, I like sightseeing and travelling like that but I also enjoy more relaxing holidays as well, I want to travel all over the world in future.

My long term goal is to live in a big city, I’m not necessarily picky on which city it just has to have a decent job market for tech, if possible I’d like to be able to live without having a car.

NSFW wise, I have a very high sex drive and am definitely on the dominant side when it comes to my sexuality, I’m definitely on the rougher side but I’m serious about checking in regularly and making sure my partner is comfortable. Admittedly my sexual experience is quite limited like I am a virgin for example but I do have some experience with other things, I have a range of kinks that I enjoy, some that I have experience with and others that I want to try. Specific things I'm into, which I have experience with, are facefucking, throatpies, facials (although I don’t do them that often, I much prefer cumming in a girls mouth to be honest) and rimming (both giving and receiving), Things I don't have experience with but want to try are anal, cockwarming etc. While I’m not specifically looking for one I would be open to a D/s style relationship dynamic if that’s what you want.

I'm very affectionate. I can't get enough of cuddles, I'll absolutely tell you I love you constantly, compliment you, etc, I’d definitely say I’m into girls who are more clingy (as long as it’s not in a toxic way).

I’m very nerdy overall, I’m a big gamer, mostly into single player games, open world, some RPGs, just anything with a good story really.

I would like to get married eventually; however, I absolutely do not want to have a wedding. I know that's a bit forward to say right away, but I just want to make sure I'm not wasting anyone's time if that's something that's important to them. What I’d want to do is elope just the two of us.

What I'm Looking For:

You're 18-23 years old and are in the UK or Europe, if you’re in Germany, Sweden, Denmark or the Netherlands then I’d be happy to relocate, if you’re willing to relocate to the UK then anywhere in Europe is fine. In the meantime I’m happy to do long distance and visit each other.

You're firmly childfree (you do not have or ever want to have children). If you’ve been sterilised or want to in the future that is a big plus but it's not a hard requirement. You are also pet free.

You want to travel the world with me in the future.

You are not very family orientated.

You are not religious.

You don't smoke or take drugs, I don’t mind vaping as long as it’s not a huge amount.

You, just like me, have a very high sex drive, are sexually submissive and into the same kinks that I listed earlier. It doesn’t matter if you have any experience or not, just that you’re open minded and want to explore and have a good time together.

I’m open to people of any body type, have dated both curvy and skinny girls in the past and have enjoyed both.

Ideally, you're also introverted like me.

If you have some nerdy interests that’s definitely a big plus.

If you’re neurodivergent as well that’s something we could connect on but it doesn’t matter at all if you’re not.

Like me, you want to get married in the future but don't want a wedding/don't care about having one.

You’re just a nice person in general and are a good communicator, as I said before I really do not like yelling in relationships so I'm looking for the type of relationship where we can just discuss everything calmly and work things out if we have an issue.

You are also a very affectionate person, like I said before I would be happy with someone who’s more clingy.

You're financially literate or are open to learning so that we can work on building wealth and retiring early together.