college is horrifying, how do you do it?

so, i graduated highschool recently and have been headed for the next step. only issue is that i have no idea how to support myself other than pell grants and loans. my parents didnt save a college fund for me at all, and i don't intend on staying in contact with them for much longer. i have been trying to save up but with paying money for living already i don't have much at all. i applied to a lot of scholarships, none heard back from. i have a 22 on the act and a 3.4 gpa, so im not super duper smart im just average. i know the world sucks right now but ANY uplifting and helpful advice anyone has i am ten THOUSAND percent up for listening. thank you for your time