Cannot feel anything for her anymore after her comment
Recently started talking to a girl, ticked all the boxes. I plan to marry soon. Have a stable job, studies completed, mid twenties. And don't have time (or need) to play around.
Pretext: Im only son and only kid. Have old parents in 60's who had me after many years of trying. They are extremely accommodating and my mother always suggests buying me a new house/ civic 2026 car (i cannot afford them on my own) after i get married (girl doesnt know this). I know they mind their own business, would love my wife as their daughter... so i dont exactly feel the need to move out of this huge house for no reason
So this girl i started talking to seemed sensible.. but recently when it came to talking about living arrangements (i kept it open ended) she straight up said no to living in same house as my parents. (The house is 1kanal in dha p6, not a 5 marla) I was pretty serious about her but this comment was extremely off putting.
My parents already plan on making me nuclear which i personally think is not yhe way to go for me. But i dont think i should select someone who is strict on living alone.
Am i wrong to be off putt by this?
Posted Jul 8, 2026, 9:35 AM UTC