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Just left my girlfriend because she couldn't stop drinking.

Venting, advice welcome

Title. It was rough. I'm lying in bed right now at like 2:30 in the morning because i can't sleep. I don't know how this is going to play out.

I met up with her at a SkyTrain station by my house and explained that I couldn't deal with the way she was living. I couldn't be around as much alcohol as she was drinking, because I would start drinking just as much. I've had a rough past couple weeks, especially considering I'm only 16. It's also like

She's a very aggressive drunk and I can't deal with having to worry about her 24/7 and worry about whatever situations she gets herself into.

The breakup itself went over pretty okay, it's just when she got drunk afterwards. She sent me this massive voice note about how she's never going to recover and that I'm a horrible person and that i never even cared in the first place because I'm "choosing myself over her"

That is bullshit. Whatever.

I'm somewhat worried she might do something stupid and get somebody to jump me, because again, we are 16. We make bad decisions. All the time.

I dunno man. Any advice is welcome, but I don't know if I have a question to ask here.

Posted Jul 8, 2026, 9:36 AM UTC

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