My ex (21f) performed witchcraft and my life is in ruins.

i'll keep it brief. never believed in black magic and such so i brushed all the early redflags off. This girl is incredibly attractive in every way possible. 10/10. Fun. Smart. 10000/10 in bed. Beauty that kills. Her backstory is that her father is a convict currently serving life for murder, her mother is a weedsmoking bum, sister - a complete mess. Anyways, the signs of her being involved with black magic are that:

  1. she used to read everyone's coffee cup sediment. (an ancient fortune-telling ritual done by Eastern European witches where they analize the sediment at the bottom of your Turkish coffee cup)

  2. Jokingly proposed that she should put her menstrual blood inside a little decorative container, make a necklace out of it and let me wear it. I assumed it was a morbid joke but now that i look back at things i realize if i had ever agreed i believe she actually would've done it and it would've been the end of me.

  3. At our 1 month anniversary (out of the 6 months that we've been together in total) i decided to take her somewhere unique, not just a boring ol' forgettable dinner, so i foolishly took her to this place called the "Witch Bar". It's basically a thematic cocktail bar that provides Tarot card fortune-telling. I thought it was gonna be a fun little date with something cool that we'd fondly remember. But when the witch reading the Tarot Cards went into STUPIDLY ACCURATE details of my life, her life , and US as a relationship.. not going to lie i was freaked the fuck out. Anyways i still brushed it off as a "WTF" moment and went on with my life.

After around a month and a half of this relationship she began to pop up more, more and more into my head - as if she was the center of my universe. This was my 4th relationship at the time so it's not like it was blind stupid teenager love. i was OBSESSED. It got to a point where even other people started noticing. I did stuff i never would've done, that simply aren't like me. I bleached my hair and got a buzzcut for the first time in my life for LITERALLY no reason (which is weird because, as i later found out, her 2 ex boyfriends were blonde and had buzzcuts WHICH I DID NOT KNOW AT THE TIME). I tried c*ke for the first time (which i said i was never going to do), i was getting drunk all the time, getting irrationally jealous (im not the jealous type), drove drunk, got in a crash, disregarding everyone except her, etc. It was also the time i got a great remote sales job. Sales, as you may know, requires extreme attention and concentration. The issue? She was on my mind during work, during free time, during family dinners, during hangouts with my friends, etc. So i basically couldn't focus on anything in my life if it didnt involve her. This caused panic attacks (which i never had before), HEAVY anxiety attacks (which i never had before) and most importantly... a re-occuring dream about a catastrophic flood with green water. Every time i dreamt this i was completely lucid, being able to do whatever i wanted - fly, pick up entire buildings by myself at will, etc. and the creepy part? i was always saving her from the flood, and each time i did she had bloody fingertips, mascara spread all over her face and was crying in despair. gives me the chills every time i think about it. Another symptom is a mysterious illness i got that mostly resembles scabies but doesnt go away. i went to 10 different doctors and none of them could pinpoint what it is. tried scabies medication, tested for STDs, tested for bacterial or virus infections, allergies even.. none of it worked. I broke up like 5 times with her during the span of the 6 months and every. single. time. i regretted it and came back.

Anyways, she ended up cheating so i left her for good and promised to never come back. I've picked up the pieces and am currently building my life from the ground up again. Although it seems to get better by the day, this entire experience leads me to believe witchcraft was involved - mostly because of the appearent lack of free will i had at that time. If you've had this happen to you or anyone that you know, or heard anything similiar to this - HELP is appreciated cause i want to get to the bottom of this.

 

Posted Jul 8, 2026, 9:37 AM UTC

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