Want advice to leave my toxic family
Everyone in my(24F) family I know is really toxic and awful and I need to leave but have no way to leave. My friends are out of my hometown and they are doing well. They kinda inspire me
My dad and mom are narcissists who actively lie and we're very hurtful. (Mom is abusive towards me.She always trying to body-shame me n keep saying I'm ugly n stuff in rage)They would constantly say horrible things to me and threaten me but will change their attitude the next day and try to be super nice.Always tries to gaslight me and emotionally manipulate me (yes I'm weak).
edit : she slutshame me and my sis. she justified dv and she it's okay if you husband b$l@t you but gurl should never raise hand in defence. she bullied me for wearing shorts at home and called me names and she does same with my sister. she has very misogynist and patrichal mindset. I'm exhausted done fighting against her mindset actually i feel the burn out in me cause I've became aggressive and mildly depressed
There is nothing I can do and I am scared because I don't have the means to leave. I want to get some kind of job so I can leave and keep distance from them
Posted Jul 8, 2026, 9:39 AM UTC