45 [M4F] #anywhere I'm looking for an IRL live in young, kinky/dirty minded, busty/curvy, loyal, emotionally available, open minded sex slave/sub needed asap, open to you relocating to me, serious only! Your future and fulfillment await, serious, ready girls only.
Hi! Long post disclaimer, but I've put a lot of work and thought into it, to attract the right partner. If you think this is too much to read, you're not the rught one already. This isnt for everyone, but thats the point! Please read to the end before responding.
About me:
I am 45, 6' tall, I weigh about 140 lbs, skinny/fit build. I have been called handsome, sexy, even beautiful lol but I'm definitely not everyone's cup of tea. I have celiacs and a high metabolism but i work out frequently. If you like tall, skinny guys that are in good shape but also kind of geeky/nerdy, im for you. Anyways, I have smoky blue eyes, dark blond hair, im going clean shaven rn, and i have glasses. Im medium well endowed.
I'm a glass is half full kind of person, very energetic and positive. I'm intelligent, emotionally intelligent, a good communicator, i have a big heart and a lot of love to give, and emotionally available. I'm very affectionate, loving, caring, very loyal, and very sweet. I'm very body positive. Im aggressive, and go after what (or who) I want. I have a very high libido and a dirty mind. I'm a dominant, soft/pleasure leaning but I definitely have a sadistic/feral side. I'm very romantic, im definitely a lover, but Im not afraid to protect whats mine, who i care about. I'm a survivor and have been through a lot that made me stronger, smarter and the man I am today. I'm completely clean, 420 friendly with a dash of psychotropics, otherwise completely ddf. Not a big drinker but I'll have a drink. l I love to laugh, and make others laugh, i make jokes all the time, I have a wide vocal range and do all kinds of voices lol. I was raised in classic Looney Tunes and Monty Python, so if that gives you any idea lol. I love whimsy. I can be emotional, and i do suffer from some ptsd and anxiety, but its well managed, especially with the 420. That being said, I may need reassurance initially. Touch is my primary love language. I'm very unique, and a good man.
I'm into gaming, cooking, working out, music (mostly electronic genres and rock/metal), movies, hiking, camping, diy projects, tech and more! Im mostly an introvert and stay in but if I had an adventure partner, I might want to go out more lol doing stuff on your own sucks.
I work first shift, and sometimes can be slow replying in the mornings, most of my free time is in the evenings and on weekends.
About you, and us:
I am looking for a woman that is a genuine submissive and is ready to build something with ne, earn my trust, and completely give herself to me, be owned totally by me. If you're new to being a submissive, thats fine, so long as you are 100% certain that is who you are. I expect to be able to train you to be the perfect sex slave and sub for me, so inexperienced is actually preferred but an open mind is essential. I like some playful sass, but i'm not looking for a disobedient brat, unless you're ready to be trained.
I am into curvy/smaller bbws, busty and a big ass, however, I'm open to other body types, if you meet most other criteria. I prefer younger, and the primary reason for that is attitude and energy. If you're closer to my age and think you can keep up and match my energy, you can reach out. You should be emotionally available, be ready for constant communication, and to be mine in every way. I have dived in with my whole heart before and gotten it broken, so I need to know that you are all in. I need to be able to trust you, and you need to be able to trust me and feel safe with me too.
I am looking for someone reliable, consistent, with good communication skills, honesty, someone who is affectionate, needy, and clingy, truly submissive, completely loyal and ready to be owned. Child free. We can discuss kinks but I will say im not into scat or anything too extreme, or anything that would cause you permanent damage. You should be open to trying new things, and into degradation. A cum fetish and an oral fixation are high on my list of must haves, although you can be trained into those. All your holes will be trained and molded to me. My slave/sub should be dedicated to making ALL my fantasies a reality, and a threesome is one of them. Dont misunderstand, i am the most loyal person in the world. I'm not open to sharing you. You should derive pleasure from serving and pleasing your Master, and have a lot of love to give, and be 100% ready to be owned, loved, protected and cared for.
I want to be worshipped. I want to have someone by my side for the rest of my life that is going to protect my heart, dedicate herself to my pleasure and happiness and do everything she can to contribute to and build a strong life with me. I want to be loved, cherished, I want to feel sexy, desired, and needed. I want to feel safe, and secure in the knowledge that you're not going anywhere, that you are completely loyal to me, that you truly do belong to me. I want to feel respected. I want you to follow my rules and let me lead, I want you belong to me mind, body, heart and soul. I want to claim you and fill you up, and break your mind with how hard, how much, I make you cum, with how i make you feel. I want to show you how I feel, and sex, to me, is the ultimate expression of our feelings for each other, and a way to become closer, to become one. I want you to be my cumslut, my fucktoy, but also my love, my heart, my partner. I am very possessive, and I want to be proud that you're mine. I want you to be proud that you're mine too. I want you to take care of all my needs, not just the physical ones, and i will in turn provide for yours and protect you. I am multi-faceted, and will show you a love unlike any youve ever dreamed of, and i will ruin you for any other guy. You will belong to me. If you say that you belong me, you had better mean it, and back up your words with actions. Just in case its not clear, this is about your pleasure too, not just from your acts of service, praise, pain etc whatever your needs are, but from the pleasure I can give you, in so many ways. Theres a reason i identify primarily as a pleasure dom!
I want to have a deep connection/bond and love that can only be experienced in this kind of lifestyle/dynamic. I'm looking for constant fun and hotness and romance and affection and love. I like clingy, needy sub/slaves, and ngl im clingy and needy too lol. I love attention, and i want to give you all my attention too. I want something magical that grows every day. Something where we both work together, not against each other. I want to guide you, help you grow and help you realize your full potential. I want to set goals for you and celebrate your achievements. I'm looking for something real.
If you are in a good position to relocate in a few months, if you know your place and true purpose, and you are a true submissive ready to be owned, we should talk! I do want you to visit before you move in, so be ready to do that soon, im not looking for endless online, but I am willing to start online. I am possibly willing to help you get here, but I need to trust you first.
First impressions are important, no low effort messages or dead texting. Dont reach out if you have others in your dms, im looking for someone intentional. No ghosting, be ready to talk! Make me feel like your priority from the beginning, be ready to give this 110%. If this post resonates with you, you should introduce yourself! If you're ready to be completely owned and love me the way I need to be loved, prove it. Send me a message, and show me, not just with your words, but with your actions, why you're serious, and why you're different from the countless women who have gotten my hopes up, claimed to be mine, only to ghost me. Dont play with my heart! I wont play with yours. Are you ready to fulfill your purpose? The only person to judge you is me, and our relationship can be whatever we need it to be, because its ours. If you want something real, im just a message away. Dont waste my time.
Cis females only.
All that being said, I am possibly open to something more short term, with the understanding that I will be continuing my search.
Kinks/things im into list: My primary kink is cumming inside/filling you up, especially if you want/need it. Im also into breeding but im not currently in a financial position to have a child. I'm also into oral both ways (ive only ever come from oral once, I can be a challenge, love giving oral), kissing, touching, skin on skin contact, cuddling, anal, anal play/eating ass, cnc, public play, tpe, spanking, biting, watersports, threesomes, free use (for me only), restraint, edging, teasing, sexting, sexy games, toy play, breast play/anr, biting, orhasm control. I love to give praise, goals, rewards, etc. Open to others. Possibly interested in exploring prostate stimulation.
I have lots of fantasies i want to make a reality too.
Not into: scat or anything that could cause permanent harm. Sharing my property. Lying. Disloyalty. Lack of communication. Fake submissives. Ghosting. Lack of commitment or effort.
Posted Jul 8, 2026, 9:40 AM UTC