42 [M4F] #NY/Online - Seeking Friends that use Paragraphs and Sentences
42, married with kids, solid job and life overall but sometimes my needs take a backseat. Looking for real friendship with good conversations. Random topics, actually learning about each other as humans. I'm open to flirty or naughty stuff if the chemistry feels right, but I'm not chasing love or a daily fuck buddy situation. Connection first. If it stays platonic that's fine too.
Fair warning, I write longer messages sometimes. Some women like it, others think it's too much. I might just be making up for all the guys who can't string more than three words together.
Classic guy next door, average build. Into outdoor stuff, trying new foods, gaming, fixing cars, DIY projects, dad life, photography, and vinyl records from rock to blues to rap to opera. I also like law and legal podcasts. I work with the public so I've got plenty of stories if you do too.
Traditional values guy at heart. Looking for HWP, sharp witted, independent women who value personal responsibility and can handle differing opinions. Age 30s to 50s, chemistry matters most.
I'm Eastern Time and work nights, so my hours line up really well with the UK, Australia, West Coast, and night owls anywhere. This is online only.
If this clicks, shoot me a message. Tell me about the worst meal you've ever had or something ridiculous you got away with.
Posted Jul 8, 2026, 11:58 AM UTC