Dodged a bullet

In late May I got together with this girl and we only been together for 3 weeks before she breaks it off. Originally I had no intention of even dating her, but after one night of being alone with her we ended up in bed together. She was ok with me kissing and touching her but kept saying we shouldn't go further, I know she wanted to but I kept it what it was because I respect bounderies when given. After 2 days of that I ask again if she wants it and tell her don't do what you'll regret. She says "will I regret it?" So I took that as a sign she wanted more from me. After a little more time I thought about it and we got together. I go on leave a week later but before I leave she stays the night in my room and leaves when I do. Not even a week after i'm gone she sleeps and starts talking to anotber dude and now they're married. Less than a month of us breaking up. I don't usually do relationships and this is why, I put my all into them so when I get burned it sucks. It sucked mostly not because she left me but because I kept finding out more things as the week went on, she entertained him the same day after I left.

Knowing what I do now i'm happy things went how they did but i'm mostly mad at myself for letting me drown in the comfort of having a relationship, it felt good. It was only 3 weeks man how I do that to myself 😭.

This is a lesson to be careful out here, these ladies, and men play games, and to not shit where you eat, we all on the same floor lmao. I'm certainally not letting myself get caught up again.

I just wanted to get this out because having no one to talk to about it blows. Thanks!