Evaraina konchem suggestions ivvandi about marriage

Need Advice

So nenu 25M oka SWE ga startup lo work chestunna. 1+LPM(meke telustadi salary Enduku cheppinno).

Eppudu career antu, I said no to any relationships, even though I got some proposals.

Nenu last 3 years nundi IT field lo work chestunna, recently ma intlo pelli gurinchi general topic ochindi, so I said I need atleast 1 year time ani. Nak telsu ma parents want me to marry early and have family ani. I pallned few things, atla jargavani kuda ardham ayyindi.

Matter entante ma parents ki na salary 60k ane telsu and remaining amount I'm investing in MFs. So I said so many reasons,

  1. Na age ki match ayye ammaylu study kuda aiporu

  2. Hyderabad lo iddariki job undali

  3. One person work cheste illu gadavadu.

  4. My salary must be more than 1LPM etc etc.

So they convinced how ever.

I stay at my relatives home, so my own sister stays with me(she is married and have kids). So ninna ma mum call cheste, my sis is provoking my mom to search for matches.

Nen already ma parents ki cheppina, they are okay with it, but ma akka rechagodtundi and I'm feeling like inka poradne nenu, ee age la enduk ivanni kastalu, 1 yr is bare minimum.

Ma akka starting saying some reasons:

  1. Ippati nundi start cheste 1 yr padtadi

  2. Manchi ammayi dorkithe, dating type ardham cheskovdnki

  3. Enquiries ki time padtadi and so on

My parents are like, she will adjust, even if she study, after study job vastadi ga, and so on.

Ma parents ekkadiki vellina, okate topic, mee peddhodi pelli epud ankuntunaru? Nen chudalna pilla ni? WTF ๐Ÿ˜’

Naku matram working wife kavali & I'm damn ready for everything to do and I need some time and I think they are valid. Ippudipude aggressively savings start chesna.

So I don't want to go into marriage trap early. Meeremantaru guys, please give me your valuable suggestions ๐Ÿ˜

TL;DR

I'm 25M, family forcing to get married. I said I'll wait for 1 more year, then I'm ready enough to handle things.need suggestions

Posted Jul 8, 2026, 12:02 PM UTC

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