Would you go all out?

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For those who are going to start - would you want her to go all out with the third? As in full blown lip kissing (possibly tongue), swallowing et al or would you want a restrained first few meetings?

I had first thought I'll just let it be pure rough fucking but no mouth to mouth with her. But after having asked her if she's ok with it, to which she matter of factly said 'ofcourse', I'm more inclined for a full blown session. After all it's for both our pleasure.